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my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #457

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tell me if im paranoid.

my best friend is a bit of a pessimist. and this summer a friend and i found out that she had a suicidal diary thing where she wrote her suicidal thoughts. she got better for about 6 months but now she getting more distanced, depressed, and secretive... its worrying me. ive already had two nightmares this week that she died and committed suicide... im starting to pray for her and im just concerned...
is it just me being paranoid?
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #468

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WOW your friend is sure the creeper :S ! You should tell an adult or talk to her personally,Faith without works is dead.
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #560

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well, thats the thing. i cant really talk to an adult because they judge her. my parents almost didnt let me hang out with her because they thought she was suicidal but that was before i knew she kinda was and i think that her parents are a source of her depression and adults just make her feel insecure and stuff... :dry:
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #578

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That's terrible! :blink: I hope your friend gets better soon. I'll have to pray for her.
As her companion, I think you should contact a therapist to talk to her. Even if she doesn't feel like a doctor can help her, make her go.
She can also read the book Coping With Depression by Siang-Yang Tan and John Ortberg. You can find it at your local library.
Another good thing to do when you're down is to put your thoughts on paper. That being said, I suggest sending your friend to visit www.whyagain.com. They have some worksheets there she can print out and do.

I hope this helps & good luck! :cheer:
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #579

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May I suggest that you check in with Dr. C here on the Discussion Board if you haven't already? RF
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #581

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I will check with her right now.
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #593

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Really Daze?... Her friend is not a creeper. It's not her fault she's depressed. Something's making her like that and she's trying to find a way to cope with it by putting down all her anger and how much she wishes she could die on paper. Have you ever even experienced depression or ever hated yourself or wished you could end it? Probably not so don't call her names. (And if you have... Well you still shouldn't call her names.)
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #641

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Sorry wintergirl . . . I meant that her friend's situation was scary. I didn't know it was offensive, and if I did I wouldn't of used it in the first place.
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #649

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thats okay :) at first it was offensive but i get what you mean now :)
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Re: my friend. 5 years 7 months ago #664

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Oh okay :)
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Re: my friend. 5 years 6 months ago #2013

You're not being paraniod. I'd be like that, too, but I'm not paraniod or anything
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