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Help! 3 years 6 months ago #38404

Oh gosh, that sounds so terrible. I can't imagine having a close friend do such a thing to me. I honestly think that you should just flat out tell her that even if she was joking, it made you feel bad and that you're very upset with her, and that you don't want to be around her anymore. Your trust is broken and you've been hurt.
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Help! 3 years 6 months ago #38521

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Tell your friend that if she want to be your friend that she wont talk behind your back. then see what happens.
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Help! 3 years 5 months ago #38994

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I'm so sorry! I know how hard that can be. All I can say is, no matter how hard it is, try not to be mean back. I know that it's REALLY hard!!!! But just pray about it, and I'm sure you've heard this a million times, "treat others the way that you want to be treated" but it really will help you......I'll be praying for you!
Micah 6:8
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Help! 3 years 4 months ago #39659

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Help! 3 years 3 months ago #40286

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I would say pray about it, and pray about her even though it's hard. Talking behind people's backs isn't right, just make sure you don't do it back. If she's talking behind your back, she's not a true friend.

Hate is strong word, but I understand. I would suggest again praying about it and let God work on your heart to forgive her, and pray that God will work on her heart too :D
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Help! 3 years 3 months ago #40316

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Always bring it to God in Prayer
P.S I will pray for you
P.P.S we are all here for you
B)
Too many years trying not to rock the boat
I gotta quote, "I don't wanna rock the boat, I wanna sink it"
Ima just do it

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Help! 3 years 1 month ago #41168

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Thankyou guys so much! You've given me the strength to forgive her and talk to her about it. She apologized. And Guide Friends, you've helped me let God take away all the hurt and forgive her.
PS. It was hard because we've been friends since well forever
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Help! 2 years 3 months ago #49301

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The pain goes deep. I've been friends with someone for as long as I can remember. Once, years ago, I heard her talking about me behind my back. I've forgiven her long ago, but it still hurts. You're not alone Birdie! I'll continue to pray for you.
... Even if it gets me convicted
I’ll still be on my knees with my hands lifted ...
... If saying I believe is out of line
If I’m judged cause I’m gonna give my life
To show the world the love that fills me
Then I want to be Guilty ...
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Help! 1 year 5 months ago #58319

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I know it hurts, I have had a similar thing happen to me except she sent me a text with all the nasty things she thought about me. Now she is being all nice to me, without even apologizing and acts like everything is fine, when it's NOT. She has broken my trust and I can't be friends with her anyone if she thinks that stuff about me. I am ending the friendship. I gave her so many chances and I know that she will keep doing the same thin, gossiping and being mean and I am SO DONE. If you feel that there is still something to salvage in the relationship, just talk to her. But for me, there's nothing to savage and the friendship would be fake and not the same.

P.S. She is a mean drama queen anyway and the reason we got in a fight was that she was bullying my sister so...
2 Timothy 4:7- I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.


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Help! 1 year 2 months ago #60974

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Oh noo thats so sad... Honestly Thats really rude of her to say that and If your friends would say that.. They should talk to each other privately like on Text or something
I've had the exact thing happen to me and I was in tears too!!
So i slept over at my BEST FRIENDs House and She was sleeping and Somebody texted her and I went on her phone ( i know im terrible lol ) and I got on her texts and It was my friend Lilli and I was scrolling up and I saw my name and I read it and they were talking about me and how annoying i was.. :( I was really hurt but that text was from months ago so I didn't talk to her about it.. I started crying and i was really upset :( :( BUt we're still friends still
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