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How can we deal with friends being mean? 4 years 2 weeks ago #33156

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My best friend and I fight a lot. I come in the door at school and she just glares at me for absolutely no reason! :pinch: She calls me bad names, pushes me (espiecally on the stairs), and whenever we fight she takes my stuff from my desk when I'm not looking and then she says to me, ''missing something?'' She is so mean and annoying!Whe I tell her that I will tell the teacher she says she will say that I did that stuff to her so I can not tell on her! I'm only in grade 6. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :blink: :dry: :ohmy: :huh: :unsure: :angry: :(
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 4 years 1 week ago #33255

I'm not going to tip toe around the answer to this one.. She's not your best friend. Anyone who treats you like that, no matter how old you are or what grade you're in, wouldn't even qualify as a friend - especially not a best friend. She sounds like a really immature person who has a vile mean streak and strives to make people around her miserable. The only advice I can give you is.. Just stop being around her. Ignore her, avoid her, even pretend she doesn't exist if she tries to talk to fight with you. I'm sure there's other people to hang out with who will treat you much better. <3 Good luck.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 4 years 1 week ago #33369

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Don't be friends with her anymore. Ignore her. Or treat her the way she treated you. Let her see how it feels.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 4 years 1 week ago #33415

Umm...don't be her friend. If she's being mean to you, then why in the world would you want to become friends with her in the first place? I mean, that's just...messed up. That's it. :)
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 4 years 3 days ago #33575

personally i kinda had a problem like that
if your best friend is treating u like that there r multiple of reasons y they r treating u like that

1 they r going through a phase
2 family problem
3 maybe something u did

ask them what is the real problem
hope this helps

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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 11 months ago #33813

Ok babe look here is what I think:

1. She is not you're friend.
2. She is trying to dominate you.
3. She is bullying you.
4. She is treating you like trash.

I think u should:

1. Talk to your mom or guardian about this (I know you dont want to make a big deal about it, but this may turn into aggresive bullying)
2. Stop talking to her.
3. If she gets worse and you're alone stand up for yourself and let her know that you can defend yourself.

PS: this happened to me and I didint do the right thing; I kept on talking to her, and forgiving her. Later It turned worse and now I'm about to go to rehab soo plz stop this :**
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 11 months ago #33897

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Sometimes when friends become mean..its something you did or something they're going through. If they weren't as mean when you guys became friends...there's a glimmer of hope that she might stop behaving the way she does..But if she behaved that way when you guys became friends...I'm sorry but you'd have to stop being friends with her because she is NOT your friend...I suggest getting new friends and watch her behavior for a while. If she behaves all lonely ...she is truly your friend...if she doesn't...don't go back to being friends with her.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 11 months ago #33921

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Cut her off. She's proven that she's not worthy of your time, energy, or friendship. I know it's tough, but sometimes we have to deal with situations like this.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 9 months ago #35803

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The best advice/s I can give right now are:
- Pray (that always helps - and Jesus is a true friend that will never let you down!)
- Talk to the teacher in private
- Tell a trustworthy family member
- Talk to her
I don't believe she is worthy to be called your best friend if she treats you like that!
Ask God for courage, forgiveness (to wards your friend) and strength!
Hope this really helps.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 9 months ago #35804

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Bribree,
Treating someone the same way the treated you is not good advice!
Jesus told his disciples that when someone slaps your right cheek, turn and give them your left.
Your telling poco1877 the opposite to Jesus' teachings - an eye for an eye!
Just my view - please don't feel offended!
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 9 months ago #35806

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$ummertime$adne$$,
I really hope your ok! You were wise to forgive, never think you did the wrong thing!
:) - Look after yourself!
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 9 months ago #35807

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poco1877,

I think you should follow;
$ummertime$adne$$ advice and
jigb_99 advice
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 5 months ago #39033

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Bribree wrote:
Don't be friends with her anymore. Ignore her. Or treat her the way she treated you. Let her see how it feels.

That isn't a good thing to do. Remember the Golden Rule "Treat others the way you wanted to be treated. You will end up being a bully too and then she could tell on you. I would avoid her, ignore her, tell a teacher or just find other friends and then maybe she will understand that she isn't hurting you and that you do not care.
2 Timothy 4:7- I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.


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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 2 months ago #40571

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I know. But later she says shes sorry and asks for forgiveness. So i forgive her. But then she does the same thing the next day :(
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How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 2 months ago #40619

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Just completely ignore her when she is in one of those moods. Just don't even respond unless she is trying to apologize or something.
It works wonders.
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How can we deal with friends being mean? 3 years 2 months ago #40620

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But don't be mean
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Just kidding I like math.
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Re: How can we deal with friends being mean? 2 years 10 months ago #42900

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If it makes you feel any better I had the same problem only it was a group of friends
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How can we deal with friends being mean? 2 years 10 months ago #43047

I don't think u should stop being friends with her :( Isnt she ure BFF :blush: I think tht you should just show her tht u dont care so everytime she does something to u just ask her if shes done! So then she might continue if shes perserverant then she'll just Give up :) But if she continues badly pray for her and Tell her tht you'll be praying for her :P
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