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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27331

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So the title says it all! I go to a christian school and I still get drama! My friend gives me major attitude, people lying about a girl in my class, someone is spreading rumors about my best friend, and on and on it goes! I need help to deal with all this because I am not used to it! Last year, there was only one major drama but this year there are several because of the new kids and my best friend! Please please please PLEASE help!!!!! :sick: :( :unsure: :dry: :S
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27344

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sounds like someones been watching to much Disney channel :dry:
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27368

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Honestly drama is so tiring. Just pray
Speak up, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the needy and oppressed.
-Proverbs 31:6

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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27372

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Not sure... I encourage you to pray about it too.
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27384

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I Know same problem! :sick:
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27397

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Okay, sounds tough. :/
One: Try not to gossip. Super hard for us girls. If anything, try to trick your friends carrying on the drama into saying NICE things about each other. (EX: Ask something like, "Don't you think (person) has nice ___" or "It was nice of ___ to ____") Then report that to the other friend. Then report another positive statement to the first friend. This should help resolve any arguments.(I assume you're a girl. Sorry if I'm wrong.)
Two: Pray a lot.
Three: Try to be as mature as possible. You're above this. When you exhibit maturity in your actions and words, your friends will turn to you and confide in you. Trust me, they like someone who's "stable".
Four: Maintain a cheerful attitude.
Five: Again, make uplifting comments about and to people. Try to find the good in even the people you dislike. (That can be hard, too.)
Six: Be friendly to the "new" people. I know that it's like, the end of the school year. But try to be kind if you are in contact with them. And, stay in contact with them. They might be uncomfortable with everything and are venting their emotions by getting involved in these dramas.
Seven: Don't be afraid to ask your parents for advice! I talk to my mom all the time. And I'm fifteen. :)

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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 6 months ago #27412

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So, do your teachers know about it? At my private SDA school there was some drama that carried on with the girls from 3rd and 4th grade all the way to 5th and 6th grade. It was 3 years of drama. I don't even know how it started, all I know is I played along with it because it added spice to our boring school routine. I got tired of it when I was in 5th grade and told the teacher. (One group was in 3rd grade when it started, the other in 4th) That pretty much resolved it. Now all of the girls in the original drama are good friends now.
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 5 months ago #28349

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Drama is always happening. You might as well get used to it. My advice is to just ignore it, and after a while, you wont even notice it :lol:
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 4 years 5 months ago #28375

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Stay Strong,.Trust god,AND PRAY!!!!! B)
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 10 months ago #34760

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Ugggghhhhh!!!!!!! I know all about what you are saying!!! I have a friend who is soooo DRAMATIC!!!!
I've told her in private and in public... And I've prayed like CRAZY!!!!!!!! Can anyone help???
And like that isn't enough she questions the Adventist Faith... So I talked to her and sorta gave her a bible study on the beliefs of our faith... Did'nt help... Can anyone help?????!!!!! :dry:
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 10 months ago #35155

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honeyflower, all you can do is pray for her and be as like jesus as you can, and talk about things from the bible to her, and pray some more
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 10 months ago #35318

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I know how u feel I have crazy and dramatic close friends and dramatic regular friend :( pray about it and just hang in there for a while :blush:
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 5 months ago #39080

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Thanks guys... We actually just became BEST friends! Pray for us to continue to be friends!
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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 4 months ago #39557

There will always be drama where ever you go! Just pray and ask for God's advice and I'm sure He will help you.
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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 3 months ago #40288

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Yep, same here. I get drama every year also. These days, sadly, it just seems to be part of normal life... What I did... well I was pushed into the middle of it... but I just handled it the best I could by talking to some adult friends and getting advice from them, all the while trying not to make the situation worse and try to resolve some of the bullying going on.. All together I think the year resolved but only with God's help...

Pray about it and talk to a couple of trusted adults. Also, in some cases, talk to the teacher. It all depends upon the teacher for what they will handle. My teacher doesn't always want to handle some of the situations, although sometimes I think he should handle more. But he's a great guy and sometimes I think he just wants to see how well we as kids can resolve it together... other times the teachers don't know and need to know. Let God help you discern the best plan of action :)
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 3 months ago #40427

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Sorry. I don't really know about drama because I go homeschool. But occasionally, there is a rumor about this guy liking a girl at my co-op. But it doesn't get big. Sorry again! :S
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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 2 months ago #40470

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Been there and im still there. Thats why i even got out of the soccer team because of the 8th grade drama. But my clasmates in 7th grade are pretty cool, and their drama isnt tiring.
So let me sing for the love
Let me love for the lost
Let me lose all I have
For what I found on the cross
Let me trust you with my life
Let me live to give you praise
Lord, let me praise you
For the grace by which I'm saved
Lord, let me sing

- Chorus of "Let me sing" by Andrew Peterson
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Sick of dramatic friends!!! 3 years 2 months ago #40579

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I know exactly what you mean!!!! Drama :) is really tiring...pray a lot, and avoid gossip!!
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 1 year 8 months ago #56128

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All i would say is peace yall i hate drama
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Re: Sick of dramatic friends!!! 1 year 5 months ago #58317

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Tell me about it.. It's been a dramatic, terrible year. Girls can be so vicious...
2 Timothy 4:7- I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.


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