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Re: Friends fighting 5 years 6 months ago #2008

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pianolover11 wrote:
I have got this problem where there two 3rd graders always fight either me or something else. Bu they do it when the teacher is out of the room. It isn't Teigan's fault, (she is one of the third graders). But I usually somehow get into the middle of it. They ask me or I break it up for Teigan's sake. But I am afraid that if I tell the teacher, either Teigan will get into trouble or my teacher might say that I am tattle tailing. Also, I am not sure if I want to talk to my parents about it because they might just say to fight it out or something! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy:
i feel so bad for you i dont know how to help you im sorry :blush:
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Re: Friends fighting 5 years 6 months ago #2027

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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Friends fighting 5 years 6 months ago #2039

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It seems you are in a tough situation and you don't feel that you can trust the adults around you to deal with it. You said if you tell the teacher she will say you are tattling and if you tell your parents they will suggest you "fight it out". So there seems to be no solution.

But here is an idea. First deal with this problem through prayer. Ask God to show you what to do. Ask God to open the minds of the adults so that they will listen to you and help you. And of course ask God to help the children you mentioned stop fighting.

After you have prayed about it then talk to your teacher and/or parents. I trust that God will guide them in finding an effective solution to the problem.

"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God." Philippians 4:6
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Re: Friends fighting 5 years 6 months ago #2054

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I also just got an idea. Maybe i can talk to my pastor first. I trust him. My parents our nice, but just yesterday, they say i should talk to Teigan about being Chelsea's friend, and I don't seee that as my job. Shouldn't her parents do that?
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Friends fighting 5 years 6 months ago #2110

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God to hear you are comfortable talking to your pastor. Go for it!
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Re: Friends fighting 4 years 11 months ago #16777

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Things are getting better with that situation. I have learned how to deal with it, and my teacher is even "helping" me by making certain rules at school and such!!
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Friends fighting 4 years 11 months ago #16854

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Yes but i think you also can have a say in their friendship :) How about you give it a try?
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Re: Friends fighting 4 years 11 months ago #16855

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:woohoo: Good to know!! :)
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Re: Friends fighting 4 years 11 months ago #16879

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Thanks!
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Friends fighting 4 years 11 months ago #16888

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Yes, the friends are also getting along better. Thanks for the advice though!
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: Friends fighting 3 years 9 months ago #35901

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I think that:
Pray and ask God what to do
Talk to a trusted relative - who you know won't tell anyone yet/ talk to the head teacher instead of just a normal teacher
Talk to your 2 friends (separately or at the same time, better in private) - ask them each why the keep fighting and be in control of the discussion (keep order). Tell them how the fights are making you feel and that you worried for them (explain the teacher situation too).
That's all I have - sorry - I hope everything works out though.
CheekyCherry xx
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Re: Friends fighting 3 years 9 months ago #35902

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I'm glad the situation has improved!
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