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girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #16882

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i'm going through a, um, "situation" with a guy. my friend thought i wuz replacing her. well, the guy got her to forgive me, but she doesn't want me around lately. i feel rejected. i would never replace her! and she knows that. i told her. things are so mixed up!

plus, the guy says he likes me, but he acts like im invisible!!! can someone pinch me? am i alive and visible? he's nice, but all in all, he's kinda a jerk. and he talks more to my girl-friend than me!!! wat up with that?!?!?!?!?!?! (are you following this?)

advice please!!!!!!!!!! i m desperate, as you can see. lol.

:S :( :unsure: :huh: :dry: :blink:
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #16963

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If the guy only wants to be your street friend,he's not worth your time. Spend more time with the girl
Speak up, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the needy and oppressed.
-Proverbs 31:6

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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #16983

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he's asked me out, like, 1 million times. he don't understand that:
a) i can't date
b) i don't wanna date
c) he likes me more than i like him

it's all really confusing. :( my life be stressful
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #17091

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Tell him why u won't date him
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #17226

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Bethany4God, I would strongly advise you to pray about this. If you don't want to date, then don't go agaisnt your wishes or your parents wishes. Maybe you could try to express to the guy that you are just his friend, that all you want to be to him is an amazing friend, not a date.

Here is some advice:
-Pray
-Talk to another trusted adult who would understand and give you even more advise.
-Talk to the guy himself and tell him your feelings.

Again, I strongly suggest prayer!!!

-Hannah-
John 3:16, Romans 8:28
You don't have to be Goliath to succeed, Little Davids can succeed, too :)
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 11 months ago #17240

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I most definitely back up your opinion of dating the guy.

I'm fifteen but I still really like Guide Magazine so don't dis me, okay? ;)
I've noticed that girls in their teens/earlyteens feel trapped when they get into relationships. I can understand why. Guys that age don't know what they're doing, and the girls are confused too. When a "couple" in their teens breaks up, it leaves scars, so to speak, that can remain through time and damage your future marriage to the man God intends for you. So I would advise: Be his friend. But back off a little and try not to get jealous. Also, spend more time with that girl. She enjoys your company and feels a little distanced right now. Explain to her how you feel about the whole situation. And I know it's not easy to back off from a guy you like. Believe me... I know how it feels to like a guy and then try to shrug it off! ;) Stay classy. Peace out.

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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #17434

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thanks for your advice. the guy doesn't care about me anymore, so we're 'done' even though we never really started cuz we didn't date. apparently we're just friends, not that he acts like it...

the girl is my friend too. :)

oh and please pray for my teacher and her family. her husband died, and he's being burried christmas eve. :((( please pray... thx.
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #17503

um what u can do is tell him that if he rlly liked u he would understand. And for the girl tell the dude to back off! jus kiddin just tell her how u feel and see how things go B)
B) i got swagg
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #17645

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Well I recommend you to spend more time with the girl, don't ignore her she'll feel bad. Tell her you're sorry again and ask her to do something with you, just the two of you. So you can make it up to her. And tell the guy you like him but you're just not ready for a relationship, you need to spend time in your studies and focus on other things. Tell her you can go with him but only as friends. And about him ignoring you just hang out with other friends if he starts acting like that move on :)

Good Luck and God bless! <3
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #17655

just, like, DUMP HIM
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #17885

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Well im not that experienced with relationships in all but i do have some advice and i think it might help. My mom told me that you should never mess up your friendship over a boy. Friends are way more important than some guy who doesn't even act like he's interested in you. Guys come and go, but friendships last a lifetime. That's my advice and i hope it helps. Most importantly pray and do what you think is right. God bless you!!! :) :silly: :woohoo:
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 10 months ago #18818

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I agree that you should pray and read your Bible. :)
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Re: girls! boys! need advice 4rom u both!!! 4 years 6 months ago #25594

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Lol beth, that guy won't leave you alone!! Lol :silly: well, my take on it is that, he acts like you're invisible bcuz he probably is scared of saying the wrong thing around you... Unfortunately, that's how I am with the guy I like, cuz I am too scared to talk to him for fear of saying the wrong thing, even though he probable isn't interested in me in the least.... :S :pinch: :dry: *Cries* maybe that's how it is with you... lol
~Cynthia~ :)
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