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A Message to Girls 5 years 1 week ago #14241

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For girls, I'm a guy and I just went through a REALLY TOUGH breakup. I dated this girl for 3 years and I found out that she was cheating on me. Should I start dating again? Or should I recover per say? Please help. If you want me to put my personality and stuff and want me to tell the whole story... Reply with a smiley face. 30 smiley faces and I'll do it. B) :P :silly: :woohoo: :blink: :lol:
Soooooooo, yeah B)
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Re: A Message to Girls 5 years 1 week ago #14595

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first of all, how old are u. unless you are over the age of 15 then u dont need to begin dating again.

:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)


there are ur thirty smile faces lol :lol:
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Re: A Message to Girls 5 years 3 days ago #15013

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assuming you are still pretty young, i would suggest taking a break.

i always say that it really doesn't make sense for somebody to 'commit' him/herself to another person when you are still so young and growing and very much figuring things out about your own self. you're really doing yourself a disservice if you're investing so much time (and money?) on ONE relationship when you should be free, exploring and developing relationships (this does not mean bf/gf) with several people. that's how you really learn about others and about yourself and gain the knowledge and experience that will lead to successful romantic relationships later on, when you are actually ready.
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15477

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i'm sure you are a great guy and all. i'm sorry for what she did to you.

i don't date yet. i give you the same advice. Read Jeremiah 29:11. Look, it's not your job to be searching for someone now. God's going to put that special person right on your path. and He'll show you who that is.

oh, and just for fun, :
:) :cheer: :P :lol: :woohoo: :side: :) :cheer: :P :lol: :silly: :woohoo: :side: :) B) ;) :P :lol: :silly: :woohoo: :side: B) :( :) :cheer: ;) :P :lol: :silly: :woohoo:

You didn't say which smiley face!! But now tell us ( or me, whichever ) the story. that is, if u want... btw i am nosey!!! :P

an extra smiley face! :)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15533

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B) B) B) :) :) :) :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: ;) ;) ;) :P :P :P :lol: :lol: :lol: :sick: :silly: :silly: :blush: :blush: :blush: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :side: :side: :side: Also give it time PLEASE. Do not get a rebound girlfriend! Be kind to yourself but wait to get back out there.
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15538

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Okay Give your heart a break. Trust me, the older you get the more emotional rolller coaster rides you will be on...prepare for that...and relax now, in the good times, before you get caught up in the middle of another highschool drama!!!!!



Honestly...it's :S :S EXAUSTING :S :S
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15631

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Okay, so I went to this Christian school and this group of girls start playing eye tag with me where I'll look by them( not purposely)
and they'll be looking at me and then look away and giggle. And one day I feel a piece of paper crumpled up in my shirt that was thrown from behind me. It said, "Do u like me? Check the box" Now at this point I'm feeling like a winner, I act and put on a face like B) when I really felt like :silly: :blink: :woohoo: I checked yes and we "went out". Now I was in {blank} grade and I really shouldn't have been worrying about this stuff. Now she I'm guessing watched WAAAAAAAAAY too much Disney. BTW FACT: Hannah Montana is the best Disney show behind Cheetah Girls 2. Anyway she wanted me to be rude and bad and stuff. And that's when I got my first B.... EVER. So I thought to let it go. Then at summer camp she asked me again. Long story short she cheated on me and I thank neonbible and Godgirl7 for reminding me that if I do t know myself, why am I looking to find someone. Because dating is supposed to be for the main purpose of marriage. So my personality is sometimes lazy, smart, according to my family and friends I'm funny, talented, awesome, athletic, and weird( but I prefer the term unique). Soooo, yeah. Hope u enjoyed the story and tell me if you'd like to hear any more. God bless.
Soooooooo, yeah B)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15672

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You do know that it's W.E.I.R.D not weird.

Wonderful
Exellent
Intellengent
Rockin'
Dude or Dudette
If you don't know what TTYLXOX is it means Talk To Ya Later Hugs and Kisses :)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15708

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RECOVER!!!!
Speak up, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the needy and oppressed.
-Proverbs 31:6

#LetUsBeDissatisfied
#BlackLivesMatter
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15711

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Thx hippigirl11 :)
Soooooooo, yeah B)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15771

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Thats saaaad..
-JoJo
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15830

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Jojome1010, why is it sad? JW
Soooooooo, yeah B)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15876

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first question is how long ago was the break up if it was a while ago then date someone else if it was just a while ago dont date anyone cause people will thik tht ur a player hope tht helped :cheer:
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #15983

Give it some time before you get serious again... You need time to heal and to step back and look at how the relationship didn't work :)
<3
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #16293

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You dont have to say your age, but if you are 15 or under, your a little too young, dont you think? And even though it is over :) :) :) :) ;)
Shea K. ;)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #16336

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if there's more to the story then lets heart it.
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #16370

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How old r u?
:) :) :) :) :cheer: :cheer: ;) ;) :P :P :angry: :angry: :unsure: :unsure: :ohmy: :ohmy: :huh: :huh: :lol: :lol: :sick: :sick: :silly: :silly: :blush: :blush: :kiss: :kiss: :side: :woohoo:
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 11 months ago #16498

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What I'd say is maybe wait a few years. I know, no one wants to be the kid in high school without a BF/GF, but in the long run, you will be more mature (hopefully! JK, I don't even know you) and yeah. Because it's harder to keep a long time BF/GF when u r younger, because that's a LOOONG way to go if you stay together until the "marriage age".

What I'd do is wait. And pray! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :) :) :) :)


In a few years, this will be you (and ur GF):
:kiss: :woohoo:
Psalm 73:28 ♡
Christ is Enough for Me
Colossians 3:15-17✝
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 8 months ago #22796

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GOD LOVES YOU!!!
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #24165

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littlez wrote:
Jojome1010, why is it sad? JW



Becuz she cheated on u...
-JoJo
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #24355

how old are u???? seriously want to know. btw when you say she "cheated" on u do u mean she slept with some other guy???? :sick: :S that's actually what the term "cheated" means in dating. just asking! :P
"Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity."--1 Timothy 4:12
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #24694

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I believe that the reason for dating is to search for a lifetime partner. (you know what I mean) If you aren't looking to get married anytime soon, then take it easy on the dating. Don't get too involved too young. If you think you've found the one, talk to an adult, maybe your parents or grandparents. They'll have some great advice, I'm sure. :D
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #24701

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I'm 14. And I didn't want to mention that, but yes she did sleep with someone…
Soooooooo, yeah B)
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #24996

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Ouch littlez you got burned you dont want a h_ like her anyway look for a new girl but don't break up with this girl before you find you new main girl.

And salvationluvs12 cheating can be considered anything that the other person says is.
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Re: A Message to Girls 4 years 7 months ago #25037

Well if ur like 10 to 14 just forget it young relAtionships are very useless and eventuLly you break up. Isn't dating when you literally go out to restaurants and movies and stuff...that's dating...not saying "we are bf and gf " anyways let ur self experience wat it's like to get to know other girls but not so serious just for fun
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