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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #67985

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:( :( :( :(
My sista is sorta talking and somewhat dating a person she's been forbidden to. The guy really isn't a good influence on her, they made out in a basement. I actually sorta caught them but they covered it up. Later on she admitted that they were kissing. We kept fighting because honestly for me it's not hard for me to reject boys when they're getting too hyper, but she's really easily swayed.
Then she told me that she was gonna be independent of boys from now on. She wasn't. They still texted each other on how much they loved each other :S :S
Finally yesterday I told her she just needed to stop it all and tell him they couldn't do that stuff yet. She agreed, sadly. She texted him that they shouldn't really talk because "we're too young." She said, "I'm sorry." He got super mad and hurt said, "No ur not sorry."
Why he said all of this is complicated. Deep down she sorta still likes this other guy. And they were so perfect. They never did anything inappropriate. Even she admits that they were really good together. But he had to break her heart, which made her date a pervert and then sorta date this guy.
Now she's mad at me. She's sad. The guy is sad and mad.
People are telling me I did the right thing, and that I did the best I could do because I love my sista. And it's true. I really don't want her to go down that road. But I guess she doesn't see it that way...
Do you guys think I did the right thing or the bad thing? :(


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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #67991

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Personally, I think you did the right thing. You stood up for your beliefs, and tried to help your sister. I'll definitely be praying for you!



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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68007

I think you did the right thing. Will keep praying for you and your sister.


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Kwesi, if you want to leave, then leave. If you want to stay, then stay. But the creepy stuff going on recently have been creeping us out. Pick one and do it.
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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68083

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missionarykid wrote:
I think you did the right thing. Will keep praying for you and your sister.
Thx :)


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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68084

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Stverno wrote:
Personally, I think you did the right thing. You stood up for your beliefs, and tried to help your sister. I'll definitely be praying for you!
Thx :)


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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68086

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We're a lot better. She and I made up. She says she explained it to him and he's ok with it. Btw just wanna put it out there that the reason the parents and I didn't like them was because he's 18 and she's 14. His brother went to jail for "hanging out" with a 15 yr old :S


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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68134

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I think u did the right thing
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I need help 8 months 3 weeks ago #68159

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I think that you made a good choice

So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10
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I need help 8 months 2 weeks ago #68488

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LolingforJesus wrote:
We're a lot better. She and I made up. She says she explained it to him and he's ok with it. Btw just wanna put it out there that the reason the parents and I didn't like them was because he's 18 and she's 14. His brother went to jail for "hanging out" with a 15 yr old :S
Wow. That completely changes the situation.
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I need help 8 months 2 weeks ago #68576

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SirGeneralCliche wrote:
LolingforJesus wrote:
We're a lot better. She and I made up. She says she explained it to him and he's ok with it. Btw just wanna put it out there that the reason the parents and I didn't like them was because he's 18 and she's 14. His brother went to jail for "hanging out" with a 15 yr old :S
Wow. That completely changes the situation.

No kidding... An 18 year old would probably never date a 14 year old unless they wanted something.... not so great... Besides, 14 is way to young to date anyone
... Even if it gets me convicted
I’ll still be on my knees with my hands lifted ...
... If saying I believe is out of line
If I’m judged cause I’m gonna give my life
To show the world the love that fills me
Then I want to be Guilty ...
- Guilty by Newsboys
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I need help 8 months 2 weeks ago #68626

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SirGeneralCliche wrote:
LolingforJesus wrote:
We're a lot better. She and I made up. She says she explained it to him and he's ok with it. Btw just wanna put it out there that the reason the parents and I didn't like them was because he's 18 and she's 14. His brother went to jail for "hanging out" with a 15 yr old :S
Wow. That completely changes the situation.

Yeah.... :(


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I need help 8 months 2 weeks ago #68627

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Now he's really mad at her for doing that. She's really sad because she wants to leave him in the past but he won't let her........ :(
But she'll be ok. She's gonna stand up to him


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