Welcome, Guest
Username: Password: Remember me

TOPIC: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012)

Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #5808

  • tball
  • tball's Avatar
  • OFFLINE
  • Posts: 148
  • Thank you received: 53
The following scenario comes from summer camp: In the cafeteria Phil made a comment about Samantha that humiliated her in front of everyone. Many of the boys and girls laughed out loud while those who were closest to Samantha were mortified. What made it worse was that Phil seemed to be completely unaware that he had humiliated her. He continued
through the day as though nothing were wrong. She wanted to do the same to him at an opportune time. Her counselor noticed and encouraged her to have a talk with Phil. What are some of Samantha’s options? What will bring her the most satisfaction? What would help Phil change how he treats others? What would you advise Samantha to do?
The administrator has disabled public write access.
The following user(s) said Thank You: Ceira

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #5834

talk to the boy and tell him not disrespect and change their attitude and acts and behaves with the dames people B)
Lucas Cárdenas
The administrator has disabled public write access.

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #6148

I would think that Samantha should confront Phil and should talk to him and tell him that what he did was really mean and should ask him how he would feel if someone did that to him. I am pretty sure Phil would feel bad and apologize to Samantha. :( Samantha should not repeat Phil's actions because it would cause problems. :angry:
:)
The administrator has disabled public write access.
The following user(s) said Thank You: Kooki_Senju

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #6150

what are some of samanthas options ?
- embarrass him back , hit him , talk to him ...
what will bring her the most satisfaction ?
- embarrassing him back .
what would help Phil change how he treats others ?
- getting beat up by someone who he embarrassed .
what would you advise samantha to do ?
- confront him .
The administrator has disabled public write access.

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #6160

  • Ceira
  • Ceira's Avatar
  • OFFLINE
  • Middlesbrough!!!
  • Posts: 6
  • Thank you received: 3
I think she should ask him to stop humiliating her and tell him to be careful about how he treats people. :)
Ceir:)HammyJo
The administrator has disabled public write access.

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #6562

I THINK SHE SHOULD GO TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW SHE FELT ABOUT THE SITUATION......AND HELP HIM TO CHANGE HIS ATTITUDE AND APPROACH TO OTHERS.....IF HE GOT NOTHING FROM THIS LEAVE HIM TO GOD....ALL U NEED TO DO THEN IS PRAY FOR HIM....INTERCEED ON HIS BEHALF. :)
The administrator has disabled public write access.

Re: Lesson 1: Being Perfect (July 7, 2012) 5 years 6 months ago #6672

  • osaze2
  • osaze2's Avatar
  • OFFLINE
  • Posts: 20
  • Thank you received: 6
I think that Samantha should confront Phil and tell him how what he said affected her and that he should try not to say the same thing to others. :silly:
~Malachi~
The administrator has disabled public write access.
Time to create page: 0.192 seconds