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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 3 days ago #89530

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So here's the deal... as many of you know, I have NEVER had many true friends. only 2 in my whole near 16-year-old life. As for girls who are friends, or girlfriends, none. I don't know what I am doing wrong? People who never talked to me dislike me... So I might be going back To my home state to visit next year, and I intend to ask a girl, that I have known for, oh, 10ish years, on a date.. well, kinda... She likes Egypt, and I know very little about it. Any suggestions?

Now to the main part. My theory is I talk too much... Which I do. Also, I have zero people skills. Many times I have walked up to a girl, as an opening line, say, Hi like your shirt, I'm so and so. and scurry away because that's all I know. And I'm loud! my hearings gone, almost, so I talk much louder. I do my best to not talk, and talk quietly, but it doesn't work. I also have problems with eye contact. I'm pretty sure I know the ground better than anyone else! But the main problem is that my character isn't compatible with other people. I can not small talk, I don't gossip, and don't swear. the opposite of what everyone else does around here. And being as there is mainly girls here, you understand my plight! (I hope)
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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 3 days ago #89548

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The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 2 days ago #89560

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SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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To show the world the love that fills me
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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 2 days ago #89568

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SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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"And lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." - Matthew 28:20

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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 2 days ago #89573

I think the biggest thing you'll need to be able to do is be able to have a conversation. I'm not the best at it, but my suggestion is to talk about things you like, and make sure you talk, don't give short one word replies, that can kill conversations.

Maybe if you find someone that likes the same stuff you do you can make a friend.
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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 17 hours ago #89594

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Blue Tornado wrote:
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The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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To know Him is life.
To see him is Faith.
To feel Him is mercy.
To touch him is grace.

To be near him is love.
He's your light in the dark.
Your life will be beautiful
When he's near your heart.
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What am I doing wrong? 2 weeks 10 hours ago #89613

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Allison C wrote:
Blue Tornado wrote:
SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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Those aint guys they are superhuman LOL
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What am I doing wrong? 1 week 6 days ago #89630

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SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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Instead of that start with 5 of each


Philippians 4:13- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
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What am I doing wrong? 1 week 6 days ago #89648

Blue Tornado wrote:
SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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What am I doing wrong? 1 week 6 days ago #89651

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Kwesi wrote:
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Blue Tornado wrote:
SirGeneralCliche wrote:
The best way to get people skills is to hang out with people. I don’t know of any other way to effectively gain social skills. You may initially be an outcast, and you may make mistakes, but at least you will learn how to interact with others. Besides, you can always start over once you go to college.

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Lol ok whatever. Maybe that's a stretch idk. But I know they can do lots of pushups in a short amount of time.

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Those aint guys they are superhuman LOL
To know Him is life.
To see him is Faith.
To feel Him is mercy.
To touch him is grace.

To be near him is love.
He's your light in the dark.
Your life will be beautiful
When he's near your heart.
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