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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 2 days ago #86615

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Okay, so I have this friend, and she started hanging out with a guy... long story short, the guy is NOT an Adventist. ( This summer) So school's out. He is now going to go to public now. He came to church and sat by her, and did stuff, so now they were supposedly dating. :sick: He's really gross, and looked like he hadn't taken a shower in years, and always wore the same clothes. But now that summer is over and school has started, I have seen hide nor hair of him. Do you think he was just playing her for the summer, or what? Sorry if this is so long...
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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 2 days ago #86619

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Maybe. There are those types of players out there.
Or maybe they were actually thinking of serious things but then their parents intervened? Idk
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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 1 day ago #86636

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I have a question, pointed toward the girls here. Why is it that girls are falling for guys recently, that are short, weak, not too bright, and don't have any will to protect and provide like a guy is supposed to do?
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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 1 day ago #86647

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don't ask me, I have no idea

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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 22 hours ago #86666

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nadcombo wrote:
I have a question, pointed toward the girls here. Why is it that girls are falling for guys recently, that are short, weak, not too bright, and don't have any will to protect and provide like a guy is supposed to do?

Maybe 'cause some girls are so desperate to have a guy be interested in them that they're willing to take whatever they can get.
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Friends that are in relationships 3 weeks 20 hours ago #86670

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nadcombo wrote:
I have a question, pointed toward the girls here. Why is it that girls are falling for guys recently, that are short, weak, not too bright, and don't have any will to protect and provide like a guy is supposed to do?

Lol, first of all, there's nothing wrong with a guy being short. They can't really help it. To be honest, what I tend to do is start crushing on guys who are good looking. By the time I figure out that their personalities aren't too great, I'm already in too deep. Lately, I have been trying to think about the personality too though. I just can't switch feelings for a guy on and off though. It doesn't work that way, though I wish I could.
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But I definitely wouldn't even think of dating that guy if he has a terrible personality, though I may have feelings for him.
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Friends that are in relationships 2 weeks 4 days ago #86729

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TravelPastel wrote:
Maybe. There are those types of players out there.
Or maybe they were actually thinking of serious things but then their parents intervened? Idk

I don't know. The parents (not that I know of) didn't intervene or anything. But she does seem a lot happier now. I think she was just dragged into it because he had a crush on her. I really don't know.
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Friends that are in relationships 2 weeks 2 days ago #86778

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oceangirl15 wrote:
TravelPastel wrote:
Maybe. There are those types of players out there.
Or maybe they were actually thinking of serious things but then their parents intervened? Idk

I don't know. The parents (not that I know of) didn't intervene or anything. But she does seem a lot happier now. I think she was just dragged into it because he had a crush on her. I really don't know.
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I personally have gone thru my sista being with this really weird guy, and not only was it weird but inappropiate, but I won't get in to that.

You know, all of her "boyfriends" she really didn't like, and so after a few months she would realize she didn't like him and then they would break up. Thankfully now she realizes it so I don't have to go thru trauma XD


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Friends that are in relationships 2 weeks 1 day ago #86834

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Well that's good that she realizes it.
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Thx for the feedback guys... :)
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Friends that are in relationships 1 week 2 days ago #86966

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Hmm. Sticky. He may have been. Btw, what kind of "stuff" did he do? If you don't mind sharing. It may help me to see a little clearer, cause I think I may have an hypothesis.
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Friends that are in relationships 1 week 2 days ago #87015

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Hmm. Sticky. He may have been. Btw, what kind of "stuff" did he do? If you don't mind sharing. It may help me to see a little clearer, cause I think I may have an hypothesis.

Well... my brother caught them hugging at church, and at his school, there r kids that do drugs, so... :sick:


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Friends that are in relationships 1 week 2 days ago #87031

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omgoodness allison c and oceangirl u guys need to change your profile pics :lol: i am getting so confused XD


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Friends that are in relationships 1 week 20 hours ago #87070

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oceangirl15 wrote:
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Hmm. Sticky. He may have been. Btw, what kind of "stuff" did he do? If you don't mind sharing. It may help me to see a little clearer, cause I think I may have an hypothesis.

Well... my brother caught them hugging at church, and at his school, there r kids that do drugs, so... :sick:


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Hmm... I see. I know when we went to the Philippines there was a guy on the trip who was essentially girl-crazy. He would deny it but he talked to the girls all the time! Near the beginning of the trip he was after me. And he was bold too. He brought me a water bottle in the airport once. We were sitting next to each other with a chair in between us once, and he but his arm over the back of the chair. Then we were sitting next to each other again, this time with no chair in between, and he kind of spread out, probably trying to touch me in some way or something. But, once he saw I was a tough egg to crack, he went and tried my Best Friend. And then another girl. Honestly, I'm just wondering if this guy is the same. Have you ever asked your friend about it?
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Friends that are in relationships 1 week 20 hours ago #87071

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omgoodness allison c and oceangirl u guys need to change your profile pics :lol: i am getting so confused XD

Ha ha ha! Sorry about that! XD We think alike I guess!
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Friends that are in relationships 4 days 20 hours ago #87163

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omgoodness allison c and oceangirl u guys need to change your profile pics :lol: i am getting so confused XD

Ha ha ha! Sorry about that! XD We think alike I guess!
XD yeah, I'll just try to read the usernames :lol:


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Friends that are in relationships 4 days 15 hours ago #87181

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Allison C wrote:
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Hmm. Sticky. He may have been. Btw, what kind of "stuff" did he do? If you don't mind sharing. It may help me to see a little clearer, cause I think I may have an hypothesis.

Well... my brother caught them hugging at church, and at his school, there r kids that do drugs, so... :sick:


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Hmm... I see. I know when we went to the Philippines there was a guy on the trip who was essentially girl-crazy. He would deny it but he talked to the girls all the time! Near the beginning of the trip he was after me. And he was bold too. He brought me a water bottle in the airport once. We were sitting next to each other with a chair in between us once, and he but his arm over the back of the chair. Then we were sitting next to each other again, this time with no chair in between, and he kind of spread out, probably trying to touch me in some way or something. But, once he saw I was a tough egg to crack, he went and tried my Best Friend. And then another girl. Honestly, I'm just wondering if this guy is the same. Have you ever asked your friend about it?
Well, its kind of a sticky situation... I don't want to ask her, and then be like put-out or anything. I don't want to offend her. Ya'll Know?
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Friends that are in relationships 4 days 14 hours ago #87200

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Does it really matter? Why don’t you just ask the friend?
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Quirky wrote:
nadcombo wrote:
I have a question, pointed toward the girls here. Why is it that girls are falling for guys recently, that are short, weak, not too bright, and don't have any will to protect and provide like a guy is supposed to do?

Maybe 'cause some girls are so desperate to have a guy be interested in them that they're willing to take whatever they can get.
Why are “nice” guys pretending like they’re perfect human beings when they just can’t get a girl because girls aren’t interested in guys who make assumptions about a whole gender? I guess we’ll never know.
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Friends that are in relationships 4 days 11 hours ago #87215

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SRNitro wrote:
Does it really matter? Why don’t you just ask the friend?
Well for one thing, u don't know the situation. She is very sensitive about things like this. Plus... we haven't really been on the same page lately. She's been flirting with my brothers, and it makes it awkward. :sick:
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Friends that are in relationships 3 days 22 hours ago #87237

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oceangirl15 wrote:
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Hmm. Sticky. He may have been. Btw, what kind of "stuff" did he do? If you don't mind sharing. It may help me to see a little clearer, cause I think I may have an hypothesis.

Well... my brother caught them hugging at church, and at his school, there r kids that do drugs, so... :sick:


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Hmm... I see. I know when we went to the Philippines there was a guy on the trip who was essentially girl-crazy. He would deny it but he talked to the girls all the time! Near the beginning of the trip he was after me. And he was bold too. He brought me a water bottle in the airport once. We were sitting next to each other with a chair in between us once, and he but his arm over the back of the chair. Then we were sitting next to each other again, this time with no chair in between, and he kind of spread out, probably trying to touch me in some way or something. But, once he saw I was a tough egg to crack, he went and tried my Best Friend. And then another girl. Honestly, I'm just wondering if this guy is the same. Have you ever asked your friend about it?
Well, its kind of a sticky situation... I don't want to ask her, and then be like put-out or anything. I don't want to offend her. Ya'll Know?
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Yeah. That makes sense. But based on your observation, was he anything like the guy I had to deal with?
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Friends that are in relationships 3 days 22 hours ago #87238

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oceangirl15 wrote:
SRNitro wrote:
Does it really matter? Why don’t you just ask the friend?
Well for one thing, u don't know the situation. She is very sensitive about things like this. Plus... we haven't really been on the same page lately. She's been flirting with my brothers, and it makes it awkward. :sick:

Ooohhh... that's REALLY sticky! I hope she hasn't gotten much anywhere with them...?
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SRNitro wrote:
Quirky wrote:
nadcombo wrote:
I have a question, pointed toward the girls here. Why is it that girls are falling for guys recently, that are short, weak, not too bright, and don't have any will to protect and provide like a guy is supposed to do?

Maybe 'cause some girls are so desperate to have a guy be interested in them that they're willing to take whatever they can get.
Why are “nice” guys pretending like they’re perfect human beings when they just can’t get a girl because girls aren’t interested in guys who make assumptions about a whole gender? I guess we’ll never know.

Huh?
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Friends that are in relationships 3 days 19 hours ago #87248

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Allison C wrote:
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Does it really matter? Why don’t you just ask the friend?
Well for one thing, u don't know the situation. She is very sensitive about things like this. Plus... we haven't really been on the same page lately. She's been flirting with my brothers, and it makes it awkward. :sick:

Ooohhh... that's REALLY sticky! I hope she hasn't gotten much anywhere with them...?
Well... kind of. I think they both have a crush on her :sick: And we haven't been very close lately because of it. Yea...
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