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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 4 weeks ago #85146

Hey guys! I've a female friend, a Japanese friend (let's call her Hanako) that I talk to through Skype and email. I feel like though I'm scaring her. I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with her, I just want to be friends, but she may think I'm hitting on her. What should I do?
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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 4 weeks ago #85173

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Read and reread the messages you send her to make sure that they can't be taken that way
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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 4 weeks ago #85175

My best advice would be to subtly or openly make it clear that you're not interested in a romantic relationship, though subtlety would probably be better. By subtle i mean like just mention it or make it noticeable, enough so that she notices and doesn't think that way. However I have zero experience with this kind of situation, so my advice might not be the best.
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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 4 weeks ago #85187

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I would give you advice, but as a fellow guy with dire problems when speaking to the opposite gender, I cant.... but one thing I would say, if you talk about other girls, or ask her if she found a guy, as I see it, that would tell them that they aren't that interested. But I would get a second opinion on this before trying, just to be safe :silly:
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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 4 weeks ago #85195

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It would be best to just tell her

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Fellow Men, Help. 2 months 3 weeks ago #85353

well, the simple option is to announce that you have a girlfriend now wherever you live. the other option is to just tell her you arent interested in her that way
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