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Girl Likes you but you don't like her back 3 months 4 days ago #85060

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Eh a little bit of an update

We're starting to talk a bit more day by day. We're both pretty shy so it's gonna be interesting haha.

Anyways, thanks for the tips and I'll keep y'all updated if anything happens


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Girl Likes you but you don't like her back 2 months 2 weeks ago #85503

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So, uh, stuffs happening.

It was going uphill last week until I started noticing her talking/texting my friend more than me. Then Saturday night, he called her and we messed around with her a bit. But after that, the two started talking and they talked for like 2 hours about who knows what and that ruined our plans for the sleepover we were having.

Maybe it's just me being jealous or overthinking but I really don't know if she's being fake or not. Like, her friends tell me that she still likes me but i don't see it. She makes no attempt to come up and talk to me while I actually went to her and tried talking and yet she claims I'm not trying.

What should I do know? I don't want this to ruin my friendship with this guy (it kind of already has).


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Girl Likes you but you don't like her back 2 months 2 weeks ago #85506

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Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?
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Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see


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Girl Likes you but you don't like her back 2 months 2 weeks ago #85509

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Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:
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Quirky wrote:
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Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:

:P uh some feelings developed.. lol


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Zipfrost64 wrote:
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Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:

:P uh some feelings developed.. lol
So why do you like her now?
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bush possum wrote:
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Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:

:P uh some feelings developed.. lol
So why do you like her now?

I guess I like her now since the fact that she likes me got stuck in my head and since she's pretty interesting


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Zipfrost64 wrote:
bush possum wrote:
Zipfrost64 wrote:
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Zipfrost64 wrote:
Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:

:P uh some feelings developed.. lol
So why do you like her now?

I guess I like her now since the fact that she likes me got stuck in my head and since she's pretty interesting
First reason isn't a good enough reason :side: I ended up bashing this one guy to my friends so much that I thought I actually liked him. 3 months later couldn't stand him again.... what were your reasons for not liking her earlier? You don't need to tell me, but revisit them, and see if they were good reasons or not. If they were good reasons, decide that you won't continue down this path, but if they weren't good reasons, continue with caution and a lot of prayer!! :)
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bush possum wrote:
Zipfrost64 wrote:
bush possum wrote:
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Zipfrost64 wrote:
Allison C wrote:
Question: Let me get this strait... she likes you, or you like her? Is it the friendship you're trying to have with her or what?

Both. We know we like each other but idk.

Just trying to be friends first then I'll see

But I thought you didn't like her back :huh:

:P uh some feelings developed.. lol
So why do you like her now?

I guess I like her now since the fact that she likes me got stuck in my head and since she's pretty interesting
First reason isn't a good enough reason :side: I ended up bashing this one guy to my friends so much that I thought I actually liked him. 3 months later couldn't stand him again.... what were your reasons for not liking her earlier? You don't need to tell me, but revisit them, and see if they were good reasons or not. If they were good reasons, decide that you won't continue down this path, but if they weren't good reasons, continue with caution and a lot of prayer!! :)

I didn't like her because I didn't know her at all and since she's a grade below me. Not sure if these are good reasons or not but ye.


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Hmm........ so... this may sound rather drastic... but do you think this girl would make you a good wife?
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Hmm........ so... this may sound rather drastic... but do you think this girl would make you a good wife?
Wait what

Sorry! I have to laugh at your reaction! :silly: The reason I ask that, is because... well, think about it. If you're interested in a girl like that, ultimately it's a marriage concept. I mean, if you guys are complete opposite in everything (i.e. you love camping and hiking etc, and she just can't stand it!) then ultimately things would be pretty unhappy and you guys would be miserable. So, would you compliment each other? is basically what I'm pointing out. Would you feel comfortable with Jesus being at the center of everything. I know that sounds a but drastic but...
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So uh, end of story now it looks like.

I decided not to go to supper since my friend wanted to hang out. While we were eating ramen in my room, my other friend who was at supper texted me saying that the girl was sitting next to the guy I was talking about. Her sister and some other girls set it up I guess since they were saying that "that's [girls name]'s seat". I don't know the full details but

So I go to rec to play basketball and I see my group of friends,which includes the guy, come in and they act like nothing happened. I get kind of mad which actually helped me with basketball since I made most of my shots and was focused. (Just to brag, I made 4 threes in a row to bring us back in the game lol)

Anyways, yeah.


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So uh, end of story now it looks like.

I decided not to go to supper since my friend wanted to hang out. While we were eating ramen in my room, my other friend who was at supper texted me saying that the girl was sitting next to the guy I was talking about. Her sister and some other girls set it up I guess since they were saying that "that's [girls name]'s seat". I don't know the full details but

So I go to rec to play basketball and I see my group of friends,which includes the guy, come in and they act like nothing happened. I get kind of mad which actually helped me with basketball since I made most of my shots and was focused. (Just to brag, I made 4 threes in a row to bring us back in the game lol)

Anyways, yeah.
So you think it's the end because she was sitting with another guy?

Just so you know, we girls are complicated :silly: Some girls (although it's not recommended because it's not very nice) will test to see if a guy is interested in them by pretending to be interested in another guy, and watching to see if the guy they like/think-is-interested becomes jealous.

If you really like her, and you think she's worth fighting for, (plus maybe ask your parents for their opinion, cos they've got more good ideas up their sleeves than we usually give them credit for), pursue her (not stalk her) until she either returns real interest or else asks you to back off.

And most importantly, pray for wisdom, cos it makes all the difference!!
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So uh, end of story now it looks like.

I decided not to go to supper since my friend wanted to hang out. While we were eating ramen in my room, my other friend who was at supper texted me saying that the girl was sitting next to the guy I was talking about. Her sister and some other girls set it up I guess since they were saying that "that's [girls name]'s seat". I don't know the full details but

So I go to rec to play basketball and I see my group of friends,which includes the guy, come in and they act like nothing happened. I get kind of mad which actually helped me with basketball since I made most of my shots and was focused. (Just to brag, I made 4 threes in a row to bring us back in the game lol)

Anyways, yeah.
So you think it's the end because she was sitting with another guy?

Just so you know, we girls are complicated :silly: Some girls (although it's not recommended because it's not very nice) will test to see if a guy is interested in them by pretending to be interested in another guy, and watching to see if the guy they like/think-is-interested becomes jealous.

If you really like her, and you think she's worth fighting for, (plus maybe ask your parents for their opinion, cos they've got more good ideas up their sleeves than we usually give them credit for), pursue her (not stalk her) until she either returns real interest or else asks you to back off.

And most importantly, pray for wisdom, cos it makes all the difference!!

It's not just that lol. and yes, I know you girls are complicated.. :P

I'm not saying it's all over hence the reason I put "it looks like"
I'll just see what happens these next few days


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So uh, end of story now it looks like.

I decided not to go to supper since my friend wanted to hang out. While we were eating ramen in my room, my other friend who was at supper texted me saying that the girl was sitting next to the guy I was talking about. Her sister and some other girls set it up I guess since they were saying that "that's [girls name]'s seat". I don't know the full details but

So I go to rec to play basketball and I see my group of friends,which includes the guy, come in and they act like nothing happened. I get kind of mad which actually helped me with basketball since I made most of my shots and was focused. (Just to brag, I made 4 threes in a row to bring us back in the game lol)

Anyways, yeah.
So you think it's the end because she was sitting with another guy?

Just so you know, we girls are complicated :silly: Some girls (although it's not recommended because it's not very nice) will test to see if a guy is interested in them by pretending to be interested in another guy, and watching to see if the guy they like/think-is-interested becomes jealous.

If you really like her, and you think she's worth fighting for, (plus maybe ask your parents for their opinion, cos they've got more good ideas up their sleeves than we usually give them credit for), pursue her (not stalk her) until she either returns real interest or else asks you to back off.

And most importantly, pray for wisdom, cos it makes all the difference!!

It's not just that lol. and yes, I know you girls are complicated.. :P

I'm not saying it's all over hence the reason I put "it looks like"
I'll just see what happens these next few days
Ok, cool.
Btw, good job on the shots!!
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Lol, we teenagers are so dramatic sometimes :lol:
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Lol, we teenagers are so dramatic sometimes :lol:

You're right :lol:

But anyways, it's actually the end. Long story short, she didn't like me in the first place and they were just rumors but she didn't want to tell me because it might make me hate her or something.

I don't know if it's actually true but it kind of makes me mad that they didn't tell me in the first place since I wasted time and almost lost a friendship with my friend.

She says she wants to be my friend but since she stalled-to tell me, it's a bit difficult to do that.

Sooo, yeahhh. Thanks for the tips and stuff. I'll keep it for future use


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Well then...that's kind of messed up :dry:
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Well then...that's kind of messed up :dry:

Yup, it really is.


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Lol, we teenagers are so dramatic sometimes :lol:

You're right :lol:

But anyways, it's actually the end. Long story short, she didn't like me in the first place and they were just rumors but she didn't want to tell me because it might make me hate her or something.

I don't know if it's actually true but it kind of makes me mad that they didn't tell me in the first place since I wasted time and almost lost a friendship with my friend.

She says she wants to be my friend but since she stalled-to tell me, it's a bit difficult to do that.

Sooo, yeahhh. Thanks for the tips and stuff. I'll keep it for future use
Oh :( sorry to hear.... but look up Romans 8:28 :)
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Tbh it'd be a miracle if someone likes me in the first place
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Hmm........ so... this may sound rather drastic... but do you think this girl would make you a good wife?
Haha! This might seem weird, but every time I like a person, I always think about what we would do if we were married... And if they don't seem fit, like they aren't good with kids, then I somewhat give up.
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Hmm........ so... this may sound rather drastic... but do you think this girl would make you a good wife?
Haha! This might seem weird, but every time I like a person, I always think about what we would do if we were married... And if they don't seem fit, like they aren't good with kids, then I somewhat give up.
AH! I do that too! I just think about that with all the guys in my school actually :silly:


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Hmm........ so... this may sound rather drastic... but do you think this girl would make you a good wife?
Haha! This might seem weird, but every time I like a person, I always think about what we would do if we were married... And if they don't seem fit, like they aren't good with kids, then I somewhat give up.
AH! I do that too! I just think about that with all the guys in my school actually :silly:
To me, that seems like a good thing. It's not right just to play around with a guy and not have a greater goal in mind. In other words, why would I want to get involved with him... give him some feelings and possibly take some of his... if we would never get along together in a marriage. So why waste the time and things? Make sense?
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