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PDA 5 years 8 months ago #78079

Public display of Affection

how far is it ok to go in public?

What do ya'll think

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Quick kiss, holding hands, hugging. That's it.
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PDA 5 years 8 months ago #78088

To quote a pastor I know "quando estan de novios naranjas, pero quando estan casados, entonces toronjas"
(To put it in simple english terms: zero when dating, but as much as you want when youre married)
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In the mission field I am working in right now, it's considered bad and not good courtesy to show affection to your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend in public... And that means any affection lol

I think it's okei as long as you aren't stripping away having "it" in public.
Or going crazy with the lip locking.
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TravelPastel wrote:
In the mission field I am working in right now, it's considered bad and not good courtesy to show affection to your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend in public... And that means any affection lol

I think it's okei as long as you aren't stripping away having "it" in public.
Or going crazy with the lip locking.

:blink: well that was a bit descriptive

Personally, watching any kind of pda between girlfriend and boyfriend is slightly irritating. But I guess hand holding is...okay...maybe... :sick:
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Hugging is as far as I'll allow without puking :sick:
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For me, as long as you're not having a full makeout sesh I don't care. Basically, I agree with Mp137.

(PS: Public Display of Affection is in all honesty Public Displays for Attention).
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The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
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I guess holding hands, maybe hugging. MAYBE. As long as you're not stopping to hug in the middle of the parking lot while there's a line of cars waiting for you to move out of the free space
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emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
Lol you wouldn't enjoy Third-Wheeling then :P
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Ooookkkaayy...
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TravelPastel wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
Lol you wouldn't enjoy Third-Wheeling then :P
does anyone???
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PDA 5 years 7 months ago #80177

I Do!!! But only when I ship the two people. I love watching relationships grow (it's so beautiful) :)
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I Do!!! But only when I ship the two people. I love watching relationships grow (it's so beautiful) :)
Ikr! Especially if the two are so cute together

Hence romance animes lol
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AWESOMEPERSON wrote:
I Do!!! But only when I ship the two people. I love watching relationships grow (it's so beautiful) :)
hmmm... i can only stand third wheeling when i have wheel 4 next to me, and i ship them
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Advice to guys (boys) :



First. Don't date in high school. Just study


Second. Once you get to college and start dating, be careful with how much you show affection to the girl. Because occasionally there are weird girls (like me) who cannot handle being touched.
(Like me) I get creeped out when I am even lightly touched
Just saying.

Third, it's best to wait until you are married to kiss and stuff. Honestly, I have seen high schoolers be all lovey dovey and it looked so disgusting. My parents saw them too and they were saying, they gotta be married! I haven't even seen married people do that in public!
And I am like... ummm.... the guy is like 15 and the girl is around there....
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PDA 5 years 6 months ago #82364

I kinda get where you're coming from, yet all this is easier said than done. Especially for me when I like someone I can't help wanting to hold hands and cuddle, that's just the way I express emotion. (Of corse there are limits to how close to people should be). And though u may not see it there are adults who kiss and hug in public (they're just way more subtle about it)
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emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
okay, middle school flirting is the worst for me. but for me, when i got to high school, it was more like friendly teasing and i was like "oh well this isn't that bad after all." i also do flirt/tease to get a laugh honestly...
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emmykitty wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
okay, middle school flirting is the worst for me. but for me, when i got to high school, it was more like friendly teasing and i was like "oh well this isn't that bad after all." i also do flirt/tease to get a laugh honestly...
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Tbh flirting is fun. But I end up disgusted in the end. Also being a socially awkward person I just never try to flirt. Sometimes I'll do something that seems flirty and I'm like (mental me) "eww, you just did that? :sick: now this person thinks you're in love with him" ... Anyway yeah, but people flirting in front of me is uncomfortable.


Funny story I had a friend that was a serial flirt. There was this Colombian guy staying with my family but I never talked to him cuz I'm like this. Anyway, my friend comes over and she doesn't know Spanish so I end up translating her flirting to him. WORST THIRD-WHEELING SITUATION EVER.
I already have said enough.
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Pyrrhic wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
okay, middle school flirting is the worst for me. but for me, when i got to high school, it was more like friendly teasing and i was like "oh well this isn't that bad after all." i also do flirt/tease to get a laugh honestly...
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Tbh flirting is fun. But I end up disgusted in the end. Also being a socially awkward person I just never try to flirt. Sometimes I'll do something that seems flirty and I'm like (mental me) "eww, you just did that? :sick: now this person thinks you're in love with him" ... Anyway yeah, but people flirting in front of me is uncomfortable.


Funny story I had a friend that was a serial flirt. There was this Colombian guy staying with my family but I never talked to him cuz I'm like this. Anyway, my friend comes over and she doesn't know Spanish so I end up translating her flirting to him. WORST THIRD-WHEELING SITUATION EVER.
What happened after that lol
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pathfinder4ever wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
okay, middle school flirting is the worst for me. but for me, when i got to high school, it was more like friendly teasing and i was like "oh well this isn't that bad after all." i also do flirt/tease to get a laugh honestly...
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Tbh flirting is fun. But I end up disgusted in the end. Also being a socially awkward person I just never try to flirt. Sometimes I'll do something that seems flirty and I'm like (mental me) "eww, you just did that? :sick: now this person thinks you're in love with him" ... Anyway yeah, but people flirting in front of me is uncomfortable.


Funny story I had a friend that was a serial flirt. There was this Colombian guy staying with my family but I never talked to him cuz I'm like this. Anyway, my friend comes over and she doesn't know Spanish so I end up translating her flirting to him. WORST THIRD-WHEELING SITUATION EVER.
What happened after that lol

Thank the creators of Google translate. So my friend and the foreign boy chatted and flirted obnoxiously. While I was very ignored. She left, the guy talked to me and asked for her. it was great.

note my tone of speech
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Pyrrhic wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
emmykitty wrote:
The worst for me is FLIRTING. Now, sometimes flirting can be cute but most of the time (at least for me) it's terrible to watch :sick: :sick: :angry: :unsure: :ohmy:
okay, middle school flirting is the worst for me. but for me, when i got to high school, it was more like friendly teasing and i was like "oh well this isn't that bad after all." i also do flirt/tease to get a laugh honestly...
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Tbh flirting is fun. But I end up disgusted in the end. Also being a socially awkward person I just never try to flirt. Sometimes I'll do something that seems flirty and I'm like (mental me) "eww, you just did that? :sick: now this person thinks you're in love with him" ... Anyway yeah, but people flirting in front of me is uncomfortable.


Funny story I had a friend that was a serial flirt. There was this Colombian guy staying with my family but I never talked to him cuz I'm like this. Anyway, my friend comes over and she doesn't know Spanish so I end up translating her flirting to him. WORST THIRD-WHEELING SITUATION EVER.
yeah sounds like it! :ohmy:
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I'm okay with anything do it all in front of me trust me I'm lonely enough not to mind.
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Well, I think that people need to be careful when around the opposite gender.

But, I will say that flirting is fun (and sometimes really...idk how to explain it :)) and I think that as long as you aren't doing something that is inappropriate or something that the other person is uncomfortable with, holding hands, no really intimate kissing (this is getting worse as I type :blush:), and absolutely nothing inappropriate.

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SGirven wrote:
Well, I think that people need to be careful when around the opposite gender.

But, I will say that flirting is fun (and sometimes really...idk how to explain it :)) and I think that as long as you aren't doing something that is inappropriate or something that the other person is uncomfortable with, holding hands, no really intimate kissing (this is getting worse as I type :blush:), and absolutely nothing inappropriate.

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No, I just quoted it.
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