Hi everyone.
I know that this isn't exactly a guy/girl relationship question, but I'm still quite interested.
Guys and Girls: what kind of clothes do you think are appropriate for us girls to wear? I know that it seems as if there's too much of talk on this subject. But, as a girl, I know how hard it is for us to dress nicely without being immodest.
So if you have any questions or answers or ideas... this would be an awesome place to do it.

Hope to hear from you soon,
Gissy

Well definetly not the clothes you avatar is wearing ! Anyways yeah most of the clothes companies are making nowadays are totally not for Christians (neither are they made by them)! I think a girl should wear a skirt below her knees a shirt with sleeves and nothing that exposes cleavage! I once actually had a thread started by berry on skinny jeans, I think they are in inappropriate because they show the 'shape' of the girls lower body which is pretty arousing to boys, many people disagreed though arguing that it is not a requirement of salvation. Which is true but still doesn't gives anyone (even boys) any right to wear them. For a guy now I think he should such T-shirt (nothing exposing to much chest though in public) some jeans (not skinny looks nasty on boys actually) and nothing that's unisex (or those clothes that departments stores say are both for boys and girls) .

For girls, you know just wear a shirt(or dress or whatever) that actually covers what's supposed to be covered. And don't wear shorts or a skirt that lets your butt hang out.

For guys, wear some pants that actually fit you and don't sag them all the way down to the backs of your knees.

Hi, Daze!
LOL. That's the first that came into my mind when I read your first sentence. (the reason I like this avatar is because of the surfboard, )
Anyway, I agree with a lot of what you say. Proper shirts for girls are very important, I think. Some skinny jeans, in my opinion, are OK, because I have a pear that aren't as tight as most skinny jeans. But on boys, I agree, they look totally gross.
I don't know about the skirts past the knee. You have a point, but most of the skirts I wear (and that I see at church) are right at the knee or maybe an inch above. But I do agree that short skirts aren't that great. At least for me, they are SO uncomfortable.

Thanks for comment!
~Gissy

Bottom line is: Wear what's comfortable to wear, both in terms of fit and just what's comfortable to you to wear. No need to dress by a standard you don't believe in or hold yourself. Just be yourself is all I'm saying.

GIRLS:wear watever jeans and tshirts tat you feel most comfrtable with (some girls calves are relly weird they should double think when to wear skiny jeans)

Guys:i hv to say that most of u guys look cute with skinny jeans or otherwise the normal black or gray jeans that r strait jeans u guys look cute with those too

didint God made us to attract guys too

I disagree there is a standard for practical everything, the seventh-day Adventists life is one of reform (please don't go soft on me now ppl...)! We are living in the last days and a part of our duty and message as reformers is dressing a particular way (it is a part of our witness) like the Waldenses!

I strongly disagree. There are a lot of clothes that I would feel comfortable wearing, but because of the dress code for SDAs, I don't wear most of them.

I think that boys and girls should wear shorts that are at least to the knees, (or just above) pants that aren't tight in the croch or the hind end, and shirts that aren't low-cut. That is my opoinin

you make wearing those bad kind of shorts sound very
painful painolover!!!

hehe, Daze. I like your avatar!

lets not to dress like old ladies

rosbesax4j, there is nothing old-fashioned about dressing appropriately. My mother didn't wear tight jeans and sleeveless shirts when she was a young teen, and she didn't have to. In fact, that is one of the things my dad liked about her, and he is a very handsome man with good christian morals. I wear dresses, and I prefer them. I don't have to dress all showy for boys to like me. God can give me a husband just the way I am.

well berrygirl13 i guess you will marry at 40 Just kidding
if u dont have nice body dont try dressing sexy

I half agree with you. But, I think that the way that us girls should attract guys is 99% by our personalities and being ourselves, and 1% looks. (Maybe not THAT exaggerated, but to be mostly personality and character and only a little bit looks. That doesn't mean we can't comb our hair and stuff because that's just hygene. I just think that we shouldn't wear clothes that would make guys look twice when we're walking down the street.
That's just my opinion, I hope I didn't offend anyone.

no wonder y u put tht AvAtAr

The reason I put this avatar was because I like all things about surfing, and I thought it'd be weird if I put the one with the guy in it, so I chose this one.

I still mean everything I say,
I hope you like my new avatar

I love your parents story

I hope you like my new avatar

irght at least i wont dress like an old fashoned girl
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Excuse me, rosbesox4j, but I find your comment offensive. Just because I don't wear jeans or tight clothes doesn't mean I don't have a good-looking body. I was made in the image of God, and I am beautiful regardless of what boys think of me.

You know guys, we can't just dress anyway we want, even if our parents don't give us restrictions. As members of the Seventh-day Adventist church, we have a duty to be reformers.
We can't be dressing like people of the world. Remember, we have a higher calling than they do. Our goal is to be a witness, not competing to see who has the latest fashion, or who's wearing the best jeans. Now, I'm not saying that you have to dress like Ellen White, but you should at least learn from her. I'm also not saying that you're going to hell if you don't dress right. I'm just trying to say that God doesn't just care about how we are on the inside, but the outside as well.

BerryGirl13, I like your boldness!!! I totally agree with you .

Amen to that, BerryGirl13!