Hey Everyone,

Ever since the beginning of Guide discussion boards, there has been [i]a lot[i] of posts about crushes and girlfriends and boyfriends. And they are usually all problems; has anyone else noticed that?

I think I know why; we're too young to handle emotions like that. Plus, we get in this whole drama of who we like and why they may not, and then notes are passed to them, or whatever, and the feelings of both sides get brutally wounded (excuse my old English).

I just wanted to tell all of you, LET GOD CHOOSE!!! He already knows the beginning from the end, so He knows which person is the best girlfriend or boyfriend for you, and He already has that one picked out! Why do you feel like you need to find out what it feels like or gain experience? If both you and your future girl/boy wait it out until God shows you the person He destined for you, you'll both gain experience together. I'm not judging anyone or trying to be mean or rude, I'm just stating it like it is.

God loves us soooooooooo much, and we have to trust Him that He has the best plans for our lives! So before life decisions like girlfriend/boyfriend relationships are made, live a life for God so that you will have wisdom, strength, and a good relationship with HIM FIRST before you have a relationship with someone else.

Happy Sabbath!

Emmy4Christ

Well said Emmy4Christ well said bravo ! You go girl! In addition to what you said none of the posts in this section go beyond crushes (99.99% of the time)! It is always some silly crush but not any relationships!

Very nicely put Emmy! High-five! It by time someone put some sense in this section.

Thanks em,
everyone of the 'popular' girls are starting to get boyfriends.
Everyone always just ends up with having a new name on their 'hate list' after they break up or dump their boyfriend/girlfriend. There is no use in making enemies so when you start to like someone as soon as you think of them think about something else.To many people get hurt.
So don't get involved in it.
great point Em BTW LOVE you pic one of my best friends plays the violin!

So many people need to hear this, and we all should be as brave and proud of our faith as this gal is! TY Em!

Yeah, but just in case they get a little overboard...lol Thanks Daze!