Well I'm worried about my best friend. Were like sister's and we alway's have each other's back, but recently she's been hanging out with this guy that's 4 year's older than her(she's 14 and he's 18). I Don't really have a problem with them being friend's, I mean i have friend's that are older than me.The thing is he asked her to be his valentine last Feb and she said yes, they started txting each other and calling each other name's like boo, daddy etc. Then they started hanging out mor and more I could tell we would all hang out together he was be flurtacious. Then she really started liking him, She read something he said to one of his friend's like "your the best girlfriend ever!" and her heart broke. Then just a couple week's ago he asked her if she wanted to go to the movies, she said yes and asked me if i wanted to go but i said no so two other friend's went with her. They ended up not watching a movie cuz the two other friend's were complaining. Then the next day she told me he asked if he could kiss her! I got mad at her because she said yes, and I told her that she whould know's what a kiss lead's to he's been around the block a few time's I know that, and his mom said he's a player that's why he's in home school now. NOw she doesn't want to tell me anything. Do you think I should butt out of her love life and let her just go? guide staff feel free to reply. hope to hear from you guy's soon. P.S. sorry it's so long
Isn't it illegal to date someone 4 years older than you? Anyway, just tell her the probable results of her actions, and hopefully she will make the right choice. If she doesn't listen to you, just leave her alone, but pray for her.
What if she's already asked for my advice and i'v told her what i thought about him ? I'm trying to let myself be ok with everything and not interfere with it anymore. In the beging it was fun hanging out with both of them and the whole valentines thing. But i'm just worried.
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