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TOPIC: my friend's love life

my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2460

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Well I'm worried about my best friend. Were like sister's and we alway's have each other's back, but recently she's been hanging out with this guy that's 4 year's older than her(she's 14 and he's 18). I Don't really have a problem with them being friend's, I mean i have friend's that are older than me.The thing is he asked her to be his valentine last Feb and she said yes, they started txting each other and calling each other name's like boo, daddy etc. Then they started hanging out mor and more I could tell we would all hang out together he was be flurtacious. Then she really started liking him, She read something he said to one of his friend's like "your the best girlfriend ever!" and her heart broke. Then just a couple week's ago he asked her if she wanted to go to the movies, she said yes and asked me if i wanted to go but i said no so two other friend's went with her. They ended up not watching a movie cuz the two other friend's were complaining. Then the next day she told me he asked if he could kiss her! :kiss: I got mad :angry: at her because she said yes, and I told her that she whould know's what a kiss lead's to he's been around the block a few time's I know that, and his mom said he's a player that's why he's in home school now. NOw she doesn't want to tell me anything. Do you think I should butt out of her love life and let her just go? guide staff feel free to reply. hope to hear from you guy's soon. P.S. sorry it's so long :pinch:
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2503

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She's your friend, and you should help her out. Tell her what you think about this guy, and how you think this relationship might take a wrong turn(with this kissing thing).
"I would rather be a sorrowful christian than a jolly fool."
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2504

just get out of her lovelife its her not u unless she ask u for advice
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2505

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You kidding me he is an adult and she is a minor! That's illegal! You must stop the realatioship now or contact her parents. You have a good reason to be worried.
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2507

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Isn't it illegal to date someone 4 years older than you? Anyway, just tell her the probable results of her actions, and hopefully she will make the right choice. If she doesn't listen to you, just leave her alone, but pray for her.
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2522

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What if she's already asked for my advice and i'v told her what i thought about him ? I'm trying to let myself be ok with everything and not interfere with it anymore. In the beging it was fun hanging out with both of them and the whole valentines thing. But i'm just worried.
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Well, if that's the case, just leave her alone. If the relationship turns out bad, it will most likely be her fault. At least you can't say you didn't warn her.
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2569

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biblegirl48 wrote:
What if she's already asked for my advice and i'v told her what i thought about him ? I'm trying to let myself be ok with everything and not interfere with it anymore. In the beging it was fun hanging out with both of them and the whole valentines thing. But i'm just worried.

I am very sorry the relationship turned out to go this far biblegirl48... but you must help your friend understand that this is also a legal situation and that guy can get arrested for what he is doing! Now I don't mean you have to bring it to court :pinch:. But simply have to help her completely know the full escalation of consequences for her actions on both legal and spiritual terms.
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2596

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Thank' you It's quiet hard when she doesn't see it but i'll try to bring it to her attention more, And naw I understand I wouldn't bring it to court LOL but may be to her parent's. Wait :blink: on a second thought she has talked to her parents about it and they took light'y to it so I don't think telling her parent's would do good. ahhhhhh :blink: what to do ??!!??
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Re: my friend's love life 1 year 11 months ago #2614

Talk to yur parents!
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