So I had this major crush on a girl b4 when my family used to go to this other church, she (kinda) knew it too. It was so big that I had to pray to God that I didn't drool over her so much and he answered it. We became good friends me, my siblings and her and would hangout after church inside the primary Sabbath school room. I liked her a lot until I found out she had a boyfriend! I was crushed but my crush still wasn't, It was hard for me to kinda accept especially now that I hear that she wants to marry the boy (sometime in the future). My family eventually stopped going to the church and I the only other time I saw was when we had a concert at our new church. besides that though I never seen her again. I still like her but not as much... it is kinda complicated the thing is that is that it is like I am trapped you see because I realize I love girls with her similar eyes, talkativeness, and face. It is just a fact, it is almost a part of my biological make up now. And I have piratically almost never felt the same about any other girl in my life (well could be because I don't know a lot of 'em). And well that is jus' how I feel...

PS: Where in the world is the "Name Withheld" button? LOL

I'm not completely sure how to answer you, Daze. Though I do have a piece of advice (and here I'm starting to sound like my mom) how about trying to look deeper than just the outer appearance? Really getting to know the girls you like?

Goodluck!
Talia

oh. cool. v.v
-Zina

Hello, I too find myself going through the same circumstance. And I'm not entirely sure how to deal with it either, the one i have an up and down crush on is most likely to have a girl friend or more so million's of other friend's that like him and have a better connection with him. Tough I try to move on or try to forget I find myself still not being able to move on. Like i'm stuck trying to get out but, no one can help. Except God and my self will and faith. Keep your head up and who know's maybe some time in the future she'll end up with you or someone else will come along.

Thanx for your advice terrier! last I went through a wonderful moment on Sabbath, I have learned to get over the crush feeling a lot! In fact I am not even really thinking about her anymore . Kinda awkward crush though it has probably been a year or so since I last saw her in person..... but I have now learned that your partner for life should be your best friend instead of just someone that you are physically attracted to. Pleas pray for me though! I can't believe I had this feeling for so long !?!